Addiction Recovery
Sexual Addiction Counseling
When sexual behavior has become compulsive (when it continues despite consequences, damages relationships, erodes integrity, and feels impossible to control), it is no longer a matter of willpower. Sexual addiction counseling provides the structure, accountability, and clinical tools to understand the pattern and build a path toward sexual integrity.
Recognize the Pattern
Patterns You May Recognize
Repeated sexual behavior despite wanting to stop
Escalating frequency, intensity, or risk
Using sexual behavior to cope with stress, loneliness, or pain
Hiding sexual activity from your spouse or partner
Spending significant time pursuing, engaging in, or recovering from sexual behavior
Consequences to relationships, work, finances, or legal standing
Shame, guilt, or self-hatred following sexual behavior
Broken promises about stopping or changing
Difficulty being emotionally present in your relationship
Feeling that the behavior controls you rather than the reverse
Is This You?
Who This Is For
Men struggling with compulsive sexual behavior, including but not limited to pornography use, multiple affairs, online sexual activity, or any pattern of sexual behavior that has become unmanageable and is causing damage to relationships, integrity, or quality of life.
A Path Forward
How Counseling Can Help
Sexual addiction counseling addresses the underlying drivers of compulsive sexual behavior (including trauma, shame, attachment patterns, and emotional regulation) while building practical tools for accountability, boundary-setting, and healthy sexuality. Rob's approach is direct and shame-free.
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The Method
Rob's Approach
Rob is trained in sexual addiction and sex therapy. He addresses the full picture: the behavioral pattern, the underlying emotional and relational dynamics, the impact on the partner and marriage, and the long-term work of building sexual integrity. Faith-integrated approaches are available but never required.
What to Expect
What a Session May Involve
Sessions may include assessment of sexual behavior patterns, identification of triggers and underlying drivers, development of accountability structures, relapse prevention planning, trauma processing when relevant, communication with partners when appropriate, and long-term recovery planning.
Frequently Asked Questions
Will Rob tell my spouse?+
Confidentiality is maintained within legal and ethical limits. Rob will discuss disclosure planning with you, which is often a critical part of recovery and trust-building.
Is this the same as sex therapy?+
Sexual addiction counseling focuses on compulsive behavior patterns. Sex therapy, which Rob is also trained in, addresses broader sexual health and intimacy concerns. Rob can integrate both when appropriate.
Can this be done online?+
Yes. Secure online sessions are available for clients in Colorado.
Ready to take the next step?
You do not need to have everything figured out before reaching out. Rob will meet you where you are.
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